Get underneath the surface

Get underneath the surface

Get underneath the surface Many years ago, when I was a manager in corporate, I had a team member who changed from being cheerful and open to sullen and withdrawn. She’d sit at her desk with her headphones on and avoid eye contact, making it difficult to...
Doing nothing is really something

Doing nothing is really something

Doing nothing is really something Matt* arrived at our coaching session wondering how to get stuff done without feeling rushed all the time. A marketing lead in a global technology company, he was in a good place after a period of adjustment bedding into a new role....
Surf the urge

Surf the urge

Surf the urge Much as I appreciate you reading this post, did you open it intentionally, or did you find yourself clicking into it on impulse? As I write this, it’s just after 8am in the morning. Even though I meant to get straight down to writing when I got to...
What state are you in?

What state are you in?

What state are you in? I’ve been thinking about state, the phenomenon we often call “state of mind”. It’s interesting that we often talk about state in a negative sense. We describe someone who’s particularly agitated or anxious as being...
Lessons in curiosity from a naked hiker

Lessons in curiosity from a naked hiker

Lessons in curiosity from a naked hiker One day back in the summer, I was walking up a quiet path in nearby woodland, when I saw something that made me do a double-take. Coming along the path I was about to join was a naked man wearing nothing but a backpack. I was...
Care less

Care less

Care less I recently listened to a Desert Island Discs episode featuring the late Raymond Briggs, author and illustrator famous for The Snowman. One of his anecdotes in particular stuck with me. He said that a motivating concern for his mother, Ethel, was what the...